First off, we should talk about what sexy is and what it isn’t. Things can be called sexy and none of them have anything to do with sex, a good example of this is cars. Things can have an appeal but unless you have a fetish for those things…they are NOT actually sexy. We just broaden the term to mean appealing but sexy is more about sex and desiring sex than just appealing. A juicy hamburger appeals to me when I’m hungry, I have no interest in fucking it. So, while we refer to “things” as sexy, they really are not.
Sexy is a mindset, it’s that certain something that makes people think about and want sex. Most of us think that sexy is the perfect body. A great body is definitely helpful but what most people don’t realize is that we all have different ideas about what that perfection actually is. Everyone assumes it’s what we see on T.V. and magazines but I’m here to tell you…that’s bullshit.
We all have certain innate things that we find attractive but that is not the whole of it. The biggest driving force behind being sexy is not the single digit size tag from your favorite designer; it’s self confidence.
That’s right! There is simply NOTHING sexier than believing that you’re sexy. Not in an arrogant or stuck up way but just saying to yourself that you are totally hot and presenting that image to the world. Stop buying clothes that are too big to hide your body, get your hair done, do your make up, use sexy scents. Face the world looking and smelling the best you can every single day. Don’t be ashamed of your curves, embrace your hotness. If you have a big rear end, don’t buy clothes to minimize it show it off. Big boobs? Low cut shirts and push up bras. Do you know how many people pay good money to have a bigger butt or bigger boobs? If you got it….FLAUNT IT!!!
Stop looking at your body and finding imperfections. One person’s imperfection is another person’s sexy playground…
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A freakin’ men! 🙂
Couldn’t agree more
Big can be sexy. It depends on the woman. Sexy is not a perfect body, sexy is sexy. There is no describing it.
I guess my point is that sexy isn’t any one thing but an over all attitude and way of presenting you at your best. What is sexy varies but self confidence is the key.
Confidence is sexy; “hot” girls that don’t have any can be just as unsexy. Men are the same. A man with a 6 pack that keeps asking if I think he’s hot is the last person I think is sexy; a bigger guy that has confidence is my cup of tea.
Agree 100%. Too many big girls lack self confidence and think that skinny is the key to sexy and happy. It’s bullshit. I’m a happy and sexy fatty. I put forth my best assets with walk with my head high and confidence emitting.
Same here; and I enjoy my rewards for my confidence
So I’ve been reading, sista! 😉
“That’s right! There is simply NOTHING sexier than believing that you’re sexy. Not in an arrogant or stuck up way but just saying to yourself that you are totally hot and presenting that image to the world. Stop buying clothes that are too big to hide your body, get your hair done, do your make up, use sexy scents.”
I’m with Mark Baron, “A freakin’ Men”!
My gf (who’s as much “into” girls as I am) and I were at dinner last night and we were seated next to a table of six women. You could have lined these women up in a row to demonstrate the “spectrum” of dress sizes from four to twenty-four. Thing is, they were ALL confident, they were ALL dolled up nicely, they were ALL having fun and — as a result — the were ALL very, very sexy. I told my gf (and she agreed!) that the biggest girl of all could have been a model. She was that appealing!
I should have gotten her phone number, I know, and there were certainly ample opportunities for me to strike up a conversation; but lately, I’ve been coming to terms with the fact that, at sixty, I simply don’t have the energy for chatting women up that I had at fifty five.
If it’s meant to be, though, we’ll cross paths again….
CA
I agree. If it’s meant to be, it will happen. Thanks for your comment!
Confidence is very sexy, very well put … cheers Don
Thanks Don!!
YW
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Absolutely !!!!!
🙂 I’m so glad that the men are chiming in to agree. See that big girls?!!!
To me sexy is all in the mind,of course big girls can be sexy just as thin girls can be a turn off,.I think that the sound my girlfriend makes when she cums is the sexiest most awesome sound in the world,Big girls rock and so yes yes yes big can be sexy.